Beyond Magic: How Do We Detect Suicidal Thoughts?

March 29, 2015
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No objective test exists for suicidal thoughts – no X-ray to detect broken hope, no CAT scan to reveal intolerable emotional pain, no blood test to expose toxic intentions.

This reality is disappointing, even devastating. People understandably want professionals to predict and prevent suicide. For example, after a pilot intentionally slammed a Germanwings plane into a mountain in the Alps in 2015, killing 149 people plus the pilot, some people called for airlines to screen pilots for suicidal thoughts.

There’s a hope that screening people for suicidal thoughts would automatically reveal who longs to die. Unfortunately, it’s not that simple.

The Benefits of Suicide Screening

Screening people for mental illness and suicidal thoughts undoubtedly identifies many people whose suicidal thoughts would otherwise remain hidden. Suicide screening tools are used in primary care physicians’ offices, schools, the military, and more.

Asking everyone about suicidal thoughts, whether or not they show symptoms of distress, might save lives. The suicide rate in the U.S. Air Force went down dramatically after the military began screening all Air Force personnel for mental health problems and suicidal thoughts – and, not incidentally, increased access to mental health services.

The Limits of Suicide Screening

First, millions of adolescents and adults in the U.S. seriously consider suicide in any given year, and the vast majority – roughly 99.7% – do not die by suicide. This means that suicidal thoughts alone do not convey whether someone’s at high risk for suicide.

As Dr. Seena Fazel, professor of forensic psychiatry at University of Oxford, explained to NBC News:

“…If you apply a reasonably good [suicide] screen to 100,000 persons, for whom you expect 10 to die from suicide (based on population averages), this suicide screening tool would lead to eight correct screens, two missed suicides, but importantly nearly 30,000 persons who would be identified at high risk but would not die from suicide.”

And those are the people who reveal suicidal thoughts. Even when asked directly if they’re thinking of suicide, many others don’t answer truthfully. Research indicates that 50% of people who consider suicide – including those who go on to kill themselves – deny thinking of suicide when asked.

Why Do People Hide Suicidal Thoughts?

Many forces conspire against the honest disclosure of suicidal thoughts, some of which this article discusses, and others of which I’ve observed in my clinical practice:

There is embarrassment, as if suicidal thoughts signify a weakness of character or will.

There is fear of others’ reactions; someone might be judgmental or overreact or give poor advice or feel burdened or call the police. There is fear, too, of loss – loss of one’s job, loss of one’s identity, and loss of one’s freedom, too, if hospitalized.

There is hopelessness, a conviction that telling others of suicidal thoughts will do no good These feelings and fears often aren’t actually true — you know, don’t believe everything you think — but they feel true to many people.

And then, most dangerous of all, some people simply are determined to not be stopped from dying by suicide. So, why tell?

What Can We Do, Then, to Identify Suicidal Thoughts?

To uncover hidden suicidal thoughts in a specific person, professionals need to skillfully ask questions, often posing the same question in different ways. As I explain in a different post, there are techniques for drawing out this kind of sensitive information.

Professionals can also look at situational crises, recent developments, risk factors and warning signs to form an opinion about whether a person is at high risk for suicide. Again, obtaining this information depends on skillfully asking questions, as well as looking at medical records and talking to people who know the person well.

The professional’s opinion might well be wrong. One study found that clinicians’ ability to predict whether a patient would attempt suicide was little better than chance.

If we want someone to open up about their suicidal thoughts, we also must provide an environment where it is safe to get help, safe to share what is terrifying to share, safe to make oneself vulnerable in a world with too much stigma, judgment, and hate.

What We Should Not Do

The reaction to the crash of the Germanwings flight, in particular the reaction to reports of the pilot’s apparent history of depression, creates the opposite environment of one that would help suicidal people feel safe to disclose their thoughts.

Some people question why pilots with depression would be allowed to fly. Yet a ban on flying would assure that pilots who have depression and who want to keep their jobs would not disclose their depression to others. Such pilots almost certainly would be less willing to seek professional help if a doctor or therapist had to report the results to the pilots’ employer.

And then what would we have? We would have pilots with depression flying planes carrying hundreds of passengers while feeling even more desperate and trapped than ever, unable to get help without tremendous loss to their career, professional identity, and income. This is a recipe that certainly will not improve passenger safety.

A Plan Beyond Magical Thinking

If you think of suicide, call 988 suicide and crisis lifeline or text 741741 to reach Crisis Text LineTo help people from endangering others with their suicidal plans, we as a society must make it OK to ask for help.

We must be careful not to brand people with depression and suicidal thoughts as potential murderers, as if one suicidal pilot’s mass murder speaks for all people with depression. (In reality, many millions of people in the U.S. alone experience major depression every year. Among people who receive mental health services for depression, only 2% ultimately die by suicide, and roughly the same amount do physical harm to others.)

We must remain vigilant for suffering and despair, and ask with compassion and concern about the welfare, feelings, and thoughts of those who are hurting.

We must stop stigmatizing mental illness and mental health treatment.

Coaxing out suicidal thoughts, by skillfully asking questions and creating an environment in which it is safe to answer honestly, is hardly an objective test to detect whether someone is thinking of suicide. But presently, in the absence of magic or medical advances, it is the best we can do.

© Copyright 2015 Stacey Freedenthal, PhD, LCSW, All Rights Reserved. Written for Speaking of Suicide.

Updated August 31, 2022

Stacey Freedenthal, PhD, LCSW

I’m a psychotherapist, educator, writer, consultant, and speaker, and I specialize in helping people who have suicidal thoughts or behavior. In addition to creating this website, I’ve authored two books: Helping the Suicidal Person: Tips and Techniques for Professionals and Loving Someone with Suicidal Thoughts: What Family, Friends, and Partners Can Say and Do. I’m an associate professor at the University of Denver Graduate School of Social Work, and I have a psychotherapy and consulting practice. My passion for helping suicidal people stems from my own lived experience with suicidality and suicide loss. You can learn more about me at staceyfreedenthal.com.

16 Comments Leave a Comment

  1. Every few weeks my husband mentions suicide to varying degrees. Sometimes its a simple comment like “Well, at least I know I can always just check out if I want to.” Other times he talks about how he researched and knows exactly where to place the gun to make sure he doesn’t survive and how he’s going to complete certain household tasks first so I don’t have to deal with them later. The first few times he talked about suicide I was very upset and concerned and was looking to call 911 and his therapist and everyone else and their brother to get help. Now, I’m completely desensitized to it. My response is along the lines of “I don’t want you to do it but clearly if that is your intent, I won’t be able to stop you.” Not in those words but that’s the message. I have offered help, support, options, hugs, therapy, to go with him to talk to someone, everything I can think of. Now, I’m just done. He speaks of it so matter of factly like one would if they were trying to decide which errand to run first on the weekend. It has become rather tedious if I’m being honest. I absolutely don’t want him to take his own life. I also can’t continue this roller coaster of not knowing which one of these is actually a credible threat. I can’t take it anymore. Yes he’s hurting obviously and its not about me but it kind of is as I have to live this life too. Where do I go from here. Do I just walk away and leave him with his demons?

  2. I have never had a situation where sharing my thoughts about considering suicide turned out to be a positive or helpful solution. Therapists don’t want to know, employers don’t want to know, and friends and family don’t want to know. I’ve learned to tell these people what they want to hear. I’ve found one outlet for sharing exactly what I’m thinking, and it’s only possible because it’s completely anonymous, if I want it to be.

    It is certainly unfortunate there are not more resources for those who are seeking help, but, as with so many health care and legal assistance situations, there is legal liability that becomes part of the picture, and it is often a driving factor in how care is provided.

  3. There is another reason. I was told by my psychologist, that if I say I am suicidal again, she will send the police to my house. So I’m going back to hiding it. I am suicidal all the time. Every day. I can’t have people calling the police every time I mention it.

  4. it can be hard to know someone is having these thoughts etc unless you are close to them. If you truly know them u will see the changes and you will know something is not right and you will want to help them as much as you can and you feel heartbroken that they are so sad but do your best to get them the help they need whatever it takes show them you care don’t ignore it work on making it better everyday and you will start to see changes for the better and you will be extremely thankful you were abe to help this dear person on time you will see them feel and do better in time. Talking and being there is extremely important love them

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